Date: Friday 12th September - Sunday 14th September 2025 (3 days, 2 nights)
Location: Bellbird Heights, Living Springs, Govenor's Bay Canterbury
Time: 5pm Friday to 3pm Sunday
Family constellations is a therapeutic modality that works through the energetic blocks and dynamics that are present in the family field and farther back in the ancestral lines. The aim is to bring harmony and flow to all those in the family field.
It centers around the premise that blocks in our lives have origins in the unresolved trauma and tension in our family field that has not be witnessed or resolved. The energy of this pain stays alive in the field, showing up in a myriad of ways (eating issues, relationship problems, money worries) until someone in the family can see the overall pattern and release the block from the whole family field.
The hidden dynamics present in family units can so often impact our individual lives in profound ways. In this practice, we use members of the group to represent members of our family and ancestors and we observe the energy that arises in the field with the aim of moving it through, in order to bring deep healing and resolution.
Every participant coming will bring with them the major issue present in their lives and we'll explore where the origin of it is and aim to release it. As we work on one person's family at a time, through the lens of a current issue in the person's life. We will look at any disharmony, breakages, mishaps and exclusions and witness how they are disrupting the energy of the family system.
Using the principles of the morphic field of resonance, we allow the constellation to unfold and provide us with a different perspective to see the family dynamics and energy. This not only releases stuck energy in the field but also helps to bring compassionate understanding of why we are the way we are, and how the patterns and tensions of our family came about.
It aims to acknowledge history that hasn't been acknowledged, process emotion that is ready to come out and help the participant to build greater understanding of where they came from.
After introducing the concept and connecting to our family field on the Friday night, we will take it in turns to work on each person's family, starting with your nuclear family.
We will spend about an hour on each person's individual issue and family dynamics. Members of the group will 'represent' (stand in) for your family member.
There will be breaks and time to rest but come as rested as you can as there is a lot to be present for.
When it's your turn, you will be asked to pick members of the group to represent your family members.
For a short time, they will hold the essence or energy of that family member- enabling us to see the dynamics of the family clearly in real time.
It is a magical process but perfectly safe. You step into the energy for the duration for that constellation and then we cleanse and let it go.
Representing is healing and profound in its own right. The majority of participants have huge breakthroughs representing in other people's families, as you are embodying specific dynamics or emotions that are usually also present in your life. You always get picked for a reason!
Anyone who feels there is 'stuff' to explore within your family field.
Anyone who is curious about particpating in a fascinating energetic modality.
Anyone who feels like the black sheep of their family, noticing everything getting brushed under the carpet without acknowledgment.
Anyone stuck repeating behavioral patterns that are no longer serving.
Anyone feeling disconnected into their family and wider field.
Anyone willing to zoom out on their issue and find different perspective and solutions.
2- 4 sharing
Early Bird price $550 / Regular price $650
Guaranteed two people sharing > limited available
Early Bird $650 / Regular price $750
Private room > limited available
Early Bird $750 / Regular price $850
All retreat facilitation
Accommodation
Meals, snacks & beverages (3 meals a day)
You can sign up as a full participant (having your constellation done) or sign up as a representative at a reduced cost of -$120 for each pricing bracket (where you participate in our others without having your families' done.)
Early Bird prices until 1st June & Payment plans available
We have the capacity to have 10 full participants. Representative only spot is unlimited.
A reimagined relationship to yourself, your issue and your family
Stepping into your true power
An increase in self - compassion, understanding and peace for yourself and members of your family
Perspective on your issue and a new way to look at things
Connection to other participants on their journeys
A greater understanding of how powerful our lineage is and how much potency is in our family lines
It does not matter if you don't know any information about your family or ancestors.
It does not matter if you are not aware of the pains or traumas of the past.
It does not matter what your relationship is currently like with your family.
Although information is interesting, we are working at an energetic level and observing what is happening in front of us. So, information is not vital.
Lead facilitator
On site cook extraordinaire catering for all our foodie needs and making sure we're nourished
This work is magical, but the aim of this work is not to push and re-traumatise. Yes, there may be many tender moments, but we will go gently, mindfully and only as far as is sensible, comfortable and manageable for all.
The aim is to work with whatever energy is present with new perspective and support of the group. What appears in your constellation may be nothing about you but be about your great-grandfather or ancestor etc.
We don't need to fix or solve everything, we just need to witness and acknowledge.
This weekend we participated in a Family Constellations workshop with Charlotte from Wildsong Healing. It's been many years since I've done Family Constellations, so I was a bit nervous coming into it, as how it is held is so vitally important. Charlotte is a patient master of her craft.
Her humble ability to hold and trust the process is admirable, this only comes from the confidence of experience. She has the capacity to articulate in a gentle, but firm, eloquent, and magical way that leaves nothing unsaid while allowing the silence to sit for what ever needs to come up to do so. I loved her courage, curiosity and compassion for all the participants.
This work has the capability to shift and balance old unsaid wounds, traumas and unacknowledged and unsavory emotions. This work is so important for freedom and empowerment. To gain different perspectives, compassion and understanding for those who came before us and brought us into being. It's not easy, but it's worth it. JG, October 2024 participant.
I spent 2 days with Charlotte weaving her Family Constellations magic last year. I can attest to the power of this modality, and that even when I was not having my family constellation run and was standing in as representing a member of somebody else's constellation, it was incredibly revealing for me and my own life! And when mine was run...BANG out of left field comes this revelation that I hadn't shared with Charlotte but somehow she picked up on it with her intuition. I cried so many times during the weekend, not from sadness but from a feeling of being seen and connecting with the other participants in their realizations. Do this work! It's not easy (that's why it's called work) but it is so incredibly rewarding and connecting.
With my scientific mind that looks for reasons, I don't understand HOW this works , all i know is that it works. AG- October 2024 participant
Powerful stuff...can absolutely recommend and encourage folks to experience this. There are huge shifts that happen to you, even just being a ‘representative-only’. Every time you come away with more personal insight. Held and facilitated soo well by Charlotte, unique and powerfully gentle.’ SH. September 2024 participant
How I love Charlotte, and how she holds space for ancestral clearing gatherings. She just is such a true genuine soul, and the whole process is fascinating and profound. Everyone should go and experience these healing sessions. GHD August 2024 participant
Charlotte Allen you are an incredible space holder and what an alignment of divine timing for me to be present again for this weekend passing . I met Charlotte Allen over 2 years at a turbulent time for me. Your support and patience has been so much impact from starting with my fear of making noise at the call of the drum to the Songbird 5 week Friday morning journey to two transformational constellations. Gentle, spacious, perfectly paced and lovingly held. An integration day needed today. Keep sharing your magic beautiful sister. JB october 2024 participant
I found family constellations an interesting modality, enjoyed the group dynamic. charlotte held a safe container while exploring different methods to get outcomes tuning in with individual needs. Would recommend to others. October 2024 participant
I thought it was amazing, very nuanced, deep, rich. A privilege to witness and be witnessed. I would definitely recommend your workshop. your facilitation was excellent; from the moment you started I felt I was in safe capable hands, so well held. I appreciated the ritual. I felt very supported by that. MD 2024 Participant
It was powerful and moving and skillfully held. Would recommend it highly! SKS 2024 participant
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